I made yellow and red index cards with short messages on them about wanting to enjoy the event we were both at.
My thinking was if she started some foolishness or drama with me during the event I would give you a yellow card. If it continued I would give her the second yellow card. If it still continued I would give her the red card and leave the event.
That was my plan to prevent myself from getting upset at any drama she tried to throw at me. Sad but I feel like it would have been effective.
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